My marriage is not improving. I really don't think I want it to continue, but where do you find the strength to cut the ties? I cannot bear to hurt my husband by telling him I want out, I cannot bear to think that he has nowhere to go, except his father's and know he wouldn't like that very much, and he has $0 to do it with, he's been unemployed for 3 years - since his own business failed, he doesn't want to work for anyone else, he takes medication which I believe he is just addicted to - he can stay out all night, working on his truck but cannot get a job. I don't understand! Wouldn't it be easier for him to find someone who can love and support him - because even though I love him, I cannot say I am still in love with him, and I would prefer it if he would just leave me. But since our home comes with my job (free) I don;t think he would ever just leave, but we are making each other miserable. Is anyone out there that has already gone through this? That can help?

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