I have been married for 5 and 1/2 years to a man who has been doing his 3 year medical residency. The residensy years are hard on a marriage..always. My husband took me out to dinner (rarity) and abruptly said he no longer wished to have a relationship. I am devastated...the residency is over June 30th and I felt we had survived. I asked my husband to give us more time and discuss what he is unhappy about. He has, and is giving us another chance, but he is standoffish toward me...will not say I love you...etc. I don't know what to do ...I tell him and show him everyday that I love him...I need prayer for my marriage to work. Thank you.

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